I believe trust is one of the key of relationship. It can only be build up gradually but be ruined easily. It is very very flagile. Friendship,relationship between man and woman and family...all type of relationship can be affected by it. And once you lose it, it is hard to get it back again. It is hurshly sad when you believe someone but he/she turn back and put the tongue out.
I have the friendship with my step children which I want to grow bigger. I'm not going to be their mother, but I want to be a good friend of them. For me, those "ship"s are about respect and trust. it's also not one way. Both side have to have them otherwise it would be so weak and wobbly. I've been trying to teach them to be trustworthy which I think a key for life since we all have to interact with other people but somehow, it is a tough job. We all are on the trial every moment to prove ourselves trustworthy, at work, home, with boy/girlfriend and friends and it never end. It would be easy if you really are trustworthy, reliable person because no need to try. But how many of us have never tried? It is build up as we try to think and act responsibly and reliably repeatedly as going through the trials. It would be the only process to be genuinely trustworthy and to win genuine "friendship".
Ahhhh.. "Teaching is learning" and this learning process also never end!! Oh, life!
May all living thing be happy!
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